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Winston is now 5 months old and I\u2019m happy (and relieved\u2026) that life is getting easier again. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>From not having had much sleep and to have put almost all my daily routines on hold, I can say today that both me and Winston sleeps all night and I\u2019m back to the routines I\u2019d like to preserve, at least for the time being. Going out for a walk in the mornings is a great joy, accompanied now by my furry friend. And how about daily yoga\u2026? No, that is not happening, but it\u2019s ok, I\u2019ll be back eventually\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>However, looking back at my first months dealing with this new situation, having a dog for the first time, makes me humble over our (I should say my) capacity to adapt to change. I have written about that before in a Newsletter, how our ability to adapt to change has shown itself in multiple ways during the pandemic, and here is just another example.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>For a while I questioned if I even would be able to do my work, and that really scared me. In the last few years, I have found routines that supports my grounding and nourishes my ability to be present. That is all good in a way, but\u2026 suddenly when these routines weren\u2019t there, I then believed that I no longer was fit to do my job (or being a good friend, wife, mum, person\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">One day a while ago, in the middle of the chaotic puppy life, I had just finished a session with a client and sat a while and reflected\/checked in with myself how I was doing. A warm sense of gratitude came over me. The session was beautiful, the client had taken a huge step in her understanding and compassion about herself, and I felt I\u2019d been able to be present and supportive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>A sentence suddenly came to me; <em>\u201cyou have so much more capacity than you think\u201d<\/em>!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Wow, I wrote it down and read it a few times and started laughing\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>In my intent to create an environment for myself where I felt safe, I had in fact limited myself to believe that \u201cwithout this I can\u2019t do it\u201d. So, in the same moment I wrote it, I decided to change my belief and look at it from that other angle; <em>what if exactly this sort of chaotic days are exactly where I need to be to explore exactly what I am exploring, and that would be, that I CAN be present and supportive even without my believed strategies for success! <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>It\u2019s safe (!) to say that by limiting ourselves we create a safe place where things are manageable, and sometimes that is the best choice. And at times we can also just add a little curiosity and ask ourselves the question; Is this true? Or could I be limiting myself out of fear of losing control? What am I telling myself and why..?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>It&#8217;s not the first time this happenes in my life, and I&#8217;m grateful for the reminder; because to stop doing things in the way I used to do them, has given me a new fresh sense of momentary awareness. 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This alertness feels fresh and light and if there\u2019s a risk of having expectations of a possible outcome, this momentary alertness helps me to come back to this very moment\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">With Gratitude,<br \/>Helena<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.8.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;308.5px&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.8.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.8.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/helenaswanstrom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/IMG_4100-scaled.jpeg&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Winston&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.13.1&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;Footer&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.1&#8243; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/helenaswanstrom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/lotus-1.jpg&#8221; parallax=&#8221;on&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; overflow-x=&#8221;visible&#8221; overflow-y=&#8221;visible&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;100px|40px|40px|40px|false|true&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;0px||||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;|20px||20px|false|true&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_module=&#8221;310&#8243; locked=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.1&#8243; width_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; width_phone=&#8221;90%&#8221; width_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.26&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(255,255,255,0.3)&#8221; background_enable_image=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax=&#8221;on&#8221; transform_scale_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; transform_scale_phone=&#8221;&#8221; transform_scale_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; transform_translate=&#8221;0px|-160px&#8221; transform_translate_tablet=&#8221;0px|0px&#8221; transform_translate_phone=&#8221;&#8221; transform_translate_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; transform_translate_linked=&#8221;off&#8221; transform_rotate_last_edited=&#8221;off|desktop&#8221; transform_skew_last_edited=&#8221;off|desktop&#8221; transform_origin_last_edited=&#8221;off|desktop&#8221; transform_styles_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;150px|50px|50px|50px|false|true&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;20px|20px|20px|20px|true|true&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; filter_opacity=&#8221;94%&#8221; transform_styles_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; transform_styles_phone=&#8221;&#8221; box_shadow_style=&#8221;preset3&#8243; box_shadow_vertical=&#8221;30px&#8221; box_shadow_blur=&#8221;100px&#8221; box_shadow_spread=&#8221;40px&#8221; box_shadow_color=&#8221;rgba(102,100,126,0.16)&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.1&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Taviraj|500|||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;34px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Taviraj|600|||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.36)&#8221; header_3_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||60px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;||30px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h3>Call<\/h3>\n<p>514-224-1701<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.5.1&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Taviraj|600|||||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.8em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Taviraj|600|||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.36)&#8221; header_3_font_size=&#8221;18px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||60px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_margin_phone=&#8221;||30px||false|false&#8221; custom_margin_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<h3>Email<\/h3>\n<p><span \n                data-original-string='FSOnYFfeMcwDWqZn7bXV6g==a535Lun9hHtxo27z1g6js+nUmP1Kc2GVcqsTZYQxIbYi7c='\n                class='apbct-email-encoder'\n                title='This contact has been encoded by Anti-Spam by CleanTalk. 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