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The evening before I had entered this medieval village in pouring rain. I went to book a bed in the communal auberge but soon felt I couldn&#8217;t stay there. It was humid with flies and cats all over the place and there I just felt cold and in discomfort. A fellow pilgrim came to my rescue and told me she just had had enough of this place and had found a nice warm auberge with a fire stove, just across the street. I followed her there.<\/p>\n<p> I slept well and woke up at 7 am and went to the common wash basins in the upper hall of the auberge. I heard the rain still pouring and looked with newly awaken eyes in the mirror. I got aware that someone was looking at me and through the mirror I looked into a pair of blue eyes that seemed a bit amused. A guy was sitting on the stairs and on his way out he smiled at me and said; &#8221;I love your curls&#8221;!<\/p>\n<p> We chatted a bit and then I went for breakfast and him I expected to be gone in a few moments. Turning my head towards the hallway while finishing my coffee, I was surprised to see that he was still there. Curiosity made me hurry up and go over to him to continue our chat and after a while we again said good bye. This time we both stood up and embraced in a hug. Here I don&#8217;t know what happened&#8230;but none of us could let go of the hug! Don&#8217;t know how long we stood there, but eventually we let go and looked at each other, in a mix of recognition and surprise, and decided to walk together&#8230;through rain and mud that day&#8230;<br \/> It would be a too long blog post if I&#8217;d share all the details that followed&#8230;I&#8217;ll save them for my memoars \ud83d\ude09 But an interesting detail is that he also arrived the evening before, checked himself in at the same damp place as I did&#8230;also felt uncomfortable and went to look for somewhere else to stay&#8230;and choosed the same place as I&#8230;<\/p>\n<p> We walked the rest of the camino together and finished in Santiago on the 27th of October. We saw each other off and I went home to Sweden and he flew back to Canada.<\/p>\n<p> 3 weeks later he had an assignment in Germany and I nervously went there to see him. Would it feel the same to meet outside the camino? How would we act when we were out there in the &#8221;real world&#8221;, with nice clothes and make up on&#8230;? Well, the third night he surprised himself by asking me to marry him, and I surprised myself without hesitation answering yes, yes, YES&#8230;!<\/p>\n<p> 7 month later we got married in Sweden and I moved to him in Montreal.<\/p>\n<p> So much has happened since that morning in Hospital de Orbigo&#8230;since then I no longer walk alone. I&#8217;m learning so much in our relationship and there&#8217;s not a single day without us gratefully talking about how fortunate we are, and for that tiny window of time that opened up for us to meet&#8230;<br \/> I wanted to share this today, on our three year anniversary, because I celebrate! 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